Had a wonderful evening with old/reconnected friends last weekend. My big crush* from 7th grade was in town visiting his twin sister, and she hosted a gathering…
We’re all in our late 40’s / early 50’s. Been there, done that, mostly…
As i was bashing cookies nibbling on crudités in the kitchen, i overheard a conversation between Twin Sister and SC, another 50-something woman.
SC: I’ve never been particularly outdoorsy, but really enjoyed going out backpacking this summer. Never knew what it was like! I even walked up on a rattlesnake during one of our hikes! What really got me was that I wasn’t terrified – I just sort of stood there and said “Well. Now what?”
TS: Honey, you’ve raised kids, right? What the hell could that rattlesnake do to you that teenagers didn’t? I’d be standing there saying “A rattle? Seriously? That’s all you got? Bring it, little fella! I’ve raised kids. You got nothin’, mother fucker!”
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* This is the lovely man who had a stroke in 2010. We’d had a grand time visiting the summer before, when he took me to a weekend music festival, rather than skin me and turn me into a girl suit. The latest adventure for him? Heart attack, and bypass surgery just over a month ago. He spent a week with his twin as part of his rehab, and is doing remarkably well! Still some issues from the stroke, but his speech is improved post-heart attack.